Apology

Fighting with the husband is not fun...at times it is needed, hash things out, get it off our chests, vent...but when the "fight" runs into day 6 it is getting a little extreme.  The root of the fight is not the issue, it is the bigger picture of what is being done about resolving it.  Well, while on the phone with a friend today (I called to ask a very important question and forgot until we started talking that her husband is going through radiation right now)  and while listening to her problems, well...the fight with my husband seemed tiny (almost tinier than tiny).  She advised me to resolve the issue tonight.

The word is perspective. 

So at 11:30 pm, he was watching TV and I was reading...we chatted and got the big stuff resolved.

I am grateful for people (friends, family and just acquaintances) that can put it all into perspective.